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A Little Update

Wednesday, February 23rd, 2011

Yesterday, I received all of our paperwork from AGCI.  It was very exciting to look through everything and I hope to watch the DVD that came with our packet tonight after church (if I can hold my eyes open long enough!).  I read about how the Ethiopian government has changed their rules in the last year and all adopting families are now required to make not one, but two trips to Ethiopia before taking your child home.  Two trips to Africa within two months of each other.  As I began the paperwork and saw the time frames and dollar signs on paper, I could feel a weight come over me.

There’s no way you can do this.

It’s going to be such a long road.

You won’t raise enough money.

But God spoke to me through someone’s status on Facebook.

Out of the mouth of an eight year old little girl:

God makes things that are impossible, unimpossible.”

So many times I can look back on a situation and think, I guess if that had been easier, then it wouldn’t have been such an amazing God Story. You know what kind of stories I’m talking about.  The stories where nothing is falling into place, everything is falling apart, there’s no hope, there’s no money, there’s no help, whatever the lack may be; and then God steps in, shakes things up, and all of the pieces fall into place in a way that leaves everyone’s jaws on the floor, giving glory to our big, big, God!

In the midst of being overwhelmed, the phone rang.  It was a sweet lady from our church whose husband goes to Tanzania, Africa several times a year to bring tools to the locals and help them build homes and buildings.  She said she’d been reading about our journey for Zoe and wanted to encourage me and let me know how excited she was for us.  She also said that she and her husband will be helping support us financially on our journey.  Instantly, God blew wind back into my puny sails through that sweet lady.  I stood up tall as I hung up the phone and remembered all of the amazing stories I’ve read from other adopting families, knowing that one day we will have a handful of our own.

Of course it doesn’t end there!  I got on the computer and realized I’d received an email from my aunt in Maine.  She was telling me how excited she was that we were adopting.  She went on to say that she would talk to my uncle and see about donating to Zoe’s adoption.  I checked my paypal account a few minutes later and there it was, a large, generous donation from Aunt Kathy and Uncle Terry.  The donation that launched us past the one thousand dollar mark.  Unbelievable.  In that moment it was as if God whispered to me:

one down, twenty-four to go.

God Story #2!

All I need to know for sure is that God has never let me down.  He has never called me to something that He did not equip me to conquer.  Each day I learn something new about trusting the Lord and surrendering everything to him.  Thank you, for those of you who have already begun to pray and encourage us in this journey.  Your words are like water to my soul and the Lord continually brings them to remembrance when I get discouraged.  Will you continue to share our story in hopes that there are many more just like you out there who will allow God to take their $10 to Africa where there will soon be one less orphan?

Blessings,

audrey

Just Watch It

Tuesday, January 18th, 2011

If you haven’t discovered the blessing of Ann Voskamp, here is a video that gives us a glimpse of her new book, “One Thousand Gifts”.

~audrey

Fair-Weather Education

Tuesday, January 11th, 2011

My boys were quite disappointed to find out that, although their regular school friends got another day off today because of the snow and ice, we’ll be returning to school as usual.

I had to remind them that we took the entire month of December off and will be finished with co-op at the end of March. Or how about last week when we spent the majority of the week in our pajamas and played long games of Qwirkle when we finished school before noon.

Today, we slept in until 9:00am. Of course Joshua woke up much earlier and didn’t feel the need to wake anyone else. When I was making breakfast he came in the kitchen and said,

“When I got up earlier than everyone else, I decided to find Norway, Sweden, Finland, Denmark, and the Netherlands on the map in the school room.” (his georgraphy for this week)

That’s what a momma wants to hear!

Right now I’m finishing my cup of coffee and the boys are sitting at the table coloring.

I picked up a Lite-Brite for the boys for Christmas. It was only $10 at Target and it was a huge hit. I only got one, so the boys take turns with it, but Owen seems to like it the most and it’s helping him learn his letters at the same time. He can now fill in all the “O”s, “G”s, “W”s, and “Y”s by himself. We’re working on “R” for red and “V” for violet (purple).

Josh will likely work late tonight and the rest of the week to make up for their snow day yesterday. I have a roast and veggies in the crock pot and I look forward to a quiet, thought-provoking day with the boys.

P.S. I did my second 5k workout last night on the treadmill. It was much easier than the first workout. It’s amazing how quickly your body adjusts. Tonight is my favorite form of inspiration: Biggest Loser!

~audrey

Updated Master Schedule

Monday, August 2nd, 2010

As I’ve said before, we used the Maxwell‘s scheduling material to come up with our Master Schedule and Chore Packs.

Our Master Schedule is simply a tool. There is never a single day that everything on everyone’s schedule gets accomplished. However, if we get off track during the day, it’s an excellent tool to refer to in order to help me reel us back in and continue being productive. It’s also a great way to make sure your time is accounted for on those days when you feel like you got nothing accomplished whatsoever!

MOMMY
JOSHUA
JESSE
OWEN
6:30am
Exercise/
Quiet Time
Sleeping
Sleeping
Sleeping
7:00am
Shower/Get Ready
Sleeping
Sleeping
Sleeping
7:30am
Breakfast
Get Dressed/Breakfast
Get Dressed/Breakfast
Get Dressed/Breakfast
8:00am
Chore Training/Clean up
Chores
Chores
Chores
8:30am
Bible Study with the boys
Bible Study and Prayer
Bible Study and Prayer
Bible Study and Prayer
9:00am
School
Spelling
Spelling
Color
9:30am
School
Reading with Mommy
Flash Cards with Owen
ABC Flashcards with Jesse
10:00am
School
Workbook with Owen
Reading with Mommy
Workbook with Joshua
10:30am
Snack
Snack
Snack
Snack
11:00am
School
Math
Math
Blocks/Puzzles
11:30am
School
Memory Work
Memory Work
Memory Work/
12:00pm
Lunch
Lunch
Lunch
Lunch
12:30pm
School
Language Lessons
Language Lessons
Play with Trains
1:00pm
School
Copywork/Writing
Copywork/Writing
Math Manipulatives with Mommy
1:30pm
Fly Lady (cleaning, pay bills, emails, etc.)
Play outside
Play outside
Play outside
2:30pm
Play (games, puzzles, computer)
Play (games, puzzles, computer)
Nap
3:00pm
School
**Extra School
**Extra School
Nap
3:30pm
Music
Piano
Computer
Nap
4:00pm
Music
Computer
Piano
Nap
4:30pm
Whole House Sweep/Dinner Prep
Dinner Helper
Dinner Helper
Dinner Helper
5:00pm
Dinner/
Clean up
Dinner
Dinner
Dinner
5:30pm
Family Time
Family Time
Family Time
Family Time
6:00pm
Bath Prep
Games with Daddy
Games with Daddy
Games with Daddy
6:30pm
Bathe Kids/
Teeth & Jammies
Bath/
Teeth & Jammies
Bath/
Teeth & Jammies
Bath/
Teeth & Jammies
7:00pm
Story/Bible Time
Story/Bible Time
Story/Bible Time
Story/Bible Time
7:30pm
Prayers with Kids
Prayers/Bed
Prayers/Bed
Prayers/Bed
8:00pm
Kids in Bed/
Bedtime Chores
SLEEP
SLEEP
SLEEP
8:30pm
Evening Routine/Plan for tomorrow
SLEEP
SLEEP
SLEEP
9:00pm
Read…aahhhhhh…
SLEEP
SLEEP
SLEEP
9:30pm
Read
SLEEP
SLEEP
SLEEP
10:00pm
Read
SLEEP
SLEEP
SLEEP
10:30pm
Lights Out!
SLEEP
SLEEP
SLEEP

Hope that helps!  Let me know if you have any questions.  It’s very trial and error in the creation process.

Happy Monday!

~audrey